Of course, the battles across the Pacific that led to the Japanese surrender after the atom-bombing of Hiroshima and Nagasaki didn't make the cut either. But that's not because they are forgotten.
Wasn't Iwo Jima immortalized, yet again, in two Clint Eastwood films a couple of years ago? And will Americans ever forget Pearl Harbor - still the worst attack on U.S. soil despite the claims of forgetful politicos and editorialists that 9/11 ranks first? No, the thinking on the war against Japan would have been somewhat different from that on Korea. Maybe something like this: "No way. Japan is our ally, we can't offend them it might throw off the next talks on economic 'cooperation'."
Not that more evidence is needed about how easy it is to forget Korea except in times of periodic crisis, but the latest proof came with the appointments of the first two special envoys for global trouble spots: George Mitchell for "the Middle East", a nebulous term that really means Israel and Palestine, and Richard Holbrooke for Afghanistan and Pakistan.
Special envoy for Korea? Silly question. It's not likely the notion even came up for consideration. Certainly no one asked about Korea when Mitchell, preening his feathers for resolving far-simpler matters in Northern Ireland, and Holbrooke, who knows about Korea from his days as assistant secretary for East Asia and the Pacific, were presented by Obama and Secretary of State Hillary Clinton in a full-dress back-patting session.
If Korea appears as a secondary issue, it's not for want of trying on the part of North Korea. Why else has the North Korean propaganda mill been churning out alternately shrill and conciliatory statements? One day Pyongyang wants to make nice with the Obama team, the next it accuses the U.S. of being up to its old tricks.
Think "pre-emptive strike". That's a phrase that North Korea deploys whenever it needs attention or an edge in negotiations. How else would one expect the North to interpret the Pentagon decision to dispatch F-16 fighters to South Korea in place of Apache helicopters, renowned for close-in assaults on tanks?
No way could North Korea think about getting rid of its nuclear weapons, roared Pyongyang's Korean Central News Agency, when the U.S. was committing the "absolutely unpardonable crime" of getting "frantic with arms buildup for aggression aimed at a pre-emptive strike ... while paying lip-service to dialogue and the like".
As Yonhap, the South Korean news agency, rightly observed, "Pyongyang may be trying to draw Obama's attention with its recent rash of commentaries saying it intends to keep its nuclear weapons."
If Obama has signaled anything about Korea, it is that North Korea will have to try a lot harder for him to cast a glance in that direction, much less name a special envoy with the luster of Mitchell or Holbrooke. Experts believe, however, he will have to do just that if the participants in the stalled six-nation talks are ever to persuade the North to carry out the terms of the six-nation agreements of 2007 for disabling and then dismantling its nuclear program.
"If Obama appoints a North Korea policy coordinator with exclusive power, that's a clear sign the Obama government is energetically going to work on Korea," said Paik Hak Soon, North Korea director at the Sejong Institute in Seoul. Behind all the rhetoric, he believes, the North Koreans "are saying they are trying to prepare for the nuclear issue".
So what was wrong with Christopher Hill, who took over as assistant secretary for East Asia and the Pacific after serving as ambassador to Korea, as the special envoy on the nuclear issue? In the final weeks, said Paik, "Bush policy-makers were trying to project North Korea's image as a bad guy." Now, Paik continued, "North Korean leadership is sending a message to the Obama administration - that the character of the North Korean issue is not as the Bush administration has stated."
While Obama may not name a special envoy on North Korea, Pyongyang may find a sympathetic listener in Kurt Campbell, who's likely to get the nod as assistant secretary for the region. Unlike Hill, Campbell hasn't been posted here but did serve as deputy defense secretary for Asia. he has also shown his credentials as a compromiser by collaborating on books with soft-liners, most recently Michael O'Hanlon of the Brookings Institution.
The Obama team, however, will go through a great deal of ritualistic bowing before they get serious about Korea. That is, unless North Korea manages to get their attention first by doing something more than yakking.
The tenor of the U.S.-Korea relationship came through in a phone chat between Clinton and South Korea's Foreign Minister Yu Myung-hwan. He had to wait in line for his 10 minutes of pro-forma palaver - one of a series of conversations that Clinton had with "counterparts from Washington's major allies", as Yonhap put it.
The read-out on the conversation was the stuff of satire. Yes, they agreed it was "desirable for the two nations to have a summit or other high-level consultations at an early date for in-depth discussions", said the Foreign Ministry. Clinton "also emphasized the importance of the Seoul-Washington alliance and expressed hope for a resolution to the nuclear issue and co-prosperity of the two sides".
The ho-hum wording was about the same as that of every conversation between an American secretary of state and South Korean foreign minister at the outset of every administration since the aftermath of the Korean War.
But then wasn't that how Obama wanted it when he decided to skip over a passing reference to the heroics of the Americans who fought to save the South from the North?
"Time and again these men and women struggled and sacrificed and worked until their hands were raw so that we might live a better life," he declaimed after enumerating a few heroic moments of American military history.
How far the Obama administration is likely to want to go in heroic defense of the South is extremely uncertain. On the evidence of his first few days in office, Korea remains the forgotten war - one that he would dearly prefer to stay that way.